Sunday, April 23, 2006

It Just Needs Time.....

2 cups of coffee, paper read, on the pc, then to church. Maybe a lazy afternoon and a movie, or window shopping. I know it's a "woman thing", but I could stroll through the mall all day. I also love hardware stores and REI, so please don't pass judgment too quickly! ;) Pulled a muscle in my neck over vacation and it's killing me. Every time I turn my head to one side...YOUCH! It just needs time.... it's so true, but I have trouble getting behind that way of thinking. I want it now...there......I've said it.

I want relief from this pain in my neck now, to know my kids are going to always be fine now, to lose this body fat now, and to reach my fitness goals now. Boy.... good thing church is today! ;)Sounds like a little adjustment is needed. Rented an awesome movie, www.emmanuelsgift.com . This is incredible and everyone should check it out!!! Went nuts cooking today. Made food for the week. Completed my own 'honey-do' list. Then it dawned on me, everything I do now, is getting me closer to my goals.

Got a call from a friend. Wife is leaving him. Reason... no boundaries. I can't stress how much I believe in them. Not a control issue, or over reacting.... just believe it's the right thing to do. He thought he was 'respecting' her space. She thought it should be no big deal that all of their friends were separate, or that she had a 'good friend' that was the opposite sex. When he questioned anything, her response was "What's your problem, your paranoid, nothing's going on". Sad........ Now I see a broken marriage and worse yet, someone's ability to trust has been shattered. That is a difficult thing to repair. He is broken...everything is broken. "It just needs time" will not apply here.

Got an e-mail from my riding guys... would I ride with them today? Explained the pain in my neck, don't think it's such a good idea. In fact... it's killing me. Maybe next weekend. Any suggestions to make this go away now? No, he tells me..... "It just needs time".

Have a great week!

;)

4 Comments:

At 9:08 PM, Blogger Em said...

I have always believed in that line , you know the invisible one that you know is there but isnt!
Well spoken or unspoken there is always limitations and bounderies and one crosses them then they must suffer the consequences!
I hope your friend is ok and that time will repair him:)

Em:)

 
At 10:38 PM, Blogger JeffM said...

Hope your neck gets better, that affects almost everything you do. In answer to your question: my daughter is 19 and still lives at home with me and I have a son who's 24 and lives in Los Angeles.

 
At 11:46 AM, Blogger Papa Louie said...

So sad to hear of your friends marriage breakup. Our boundaries is in Christ. He is the one who limits and restricts our natural man.

 
At 7:41 PM, Blogger Una said...

I hope your neck is better Deb. When the neck goes, the rest of the bod kinks up too. Ick.

So sorry to hear about your friend. Very sad.

 

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